BE YOURSELF, BE UNIQUE

                        

Be yourself. Everyone else is already taken. - Oscar Wilde

 Hey, today I am going to throw some light on a very unique topic ,I consider it as the

Best possible way to be succeed in entrepreneurial journey .in my previous blog I have

Talked about three key secrets of success  and I believe now your cup is empty and

You have planted right choice of  seeds in your garden .some people may think this

Guy has gone crazy, how some one can earn money by using these methods, yes someway  you are very true and some other ways you are not ,initially it will not develop your bank balance but I can guarantee it will develop you in long run.

We succeed twice

first in our  mind, second in real.

 Well, later on I will write about some real process( promise), but first we need to make sure that our head office(mind) is in our control. If you are done with the first phase, I know lots of magic Happening in your life, you are attracting great success through your manifestation, planning and hard work. You are enjoying the sweet sun beam, you know the stars are there in the sky waiting for you, though you cant see them in day light….and you wait for the night to come, you give but don’t allow yourself to be used ,love but don’t allow your heart to be abused, trust but don’t be naive, listen to others but do not lose your  own voice.

In other case the real problem is, sometime we want success very quickly, we want to do things in our own hand, we become little egoistic, we think .like. “hey  this is my goal, I must decide how should I go, I can climb the mountain , I can shake the world with my great determination etc etc.  Hey I will say this is idiotic thought, actually  things do not work like that.

Then what to do?

                                                     GET A MENTOR

Yes, get a mentor, who will show you the right way, who will reduce your journey period in to half, not to mention that you are the best mentor of your own life, still we need to follow some instruction initially.

 

 ‎"if you are successful, it is because somewhere, sometime, someone gave you a life or an idea that started you off in the right direction"-Melinda gates

PS. Alone we can only dream, together we can shake the world.

Now again we take wrong decision when we start copying to our mentor instead of following his/her instructions properly. In my case, I DID THE SAME MISTAKES.

AS I want to become an international motivational speaker ,I did lots of research on this field, I started watching videos of legendary zig ziglar, les brown, tony robbins, robin Sharma,brian tracy ,shiv khera etc etc..i started reading their books,I took every possible steps(actually it was very little effort now I can understand). I used to practice before mirror, I started copying them, their style, their words, gesture, accent, every damn things( I can show you the mimicry lol).even if my dream I still talk before thousands of people( you are right, I am little foolish but I am hungry) ,wearing business suit, tie..etc..etc..

Truth to be said, it does not work like that actually.

First, we need to be unique  and to be unique there is no greater secret than to be ourselves.

BE YOURSELF, BE UNIQUE

“Those who wish to sing

Always find the song” - Swedish proverb

Well now question is how to be “ yourself” right?

 Almost everyone will tell you what to do, but hardly anyone will tell you how to do…here I will try to tell you  HOW TO BE YOURSELF.

I THINK THE BEST WAY TO BE YOURSELF  IS    “ TO  KNOW  YOURSELF  FIRST”

now I will request you to REMOVE YOUR MENTAL BLOCKS and keep your FOCUS on what I am going to share with you

I THINK YOU ARE READY….is not it?

Now we are going to learn from a script, taken from

The great  Ashtavakra Gita, or the Ashtavakra Samhita as it is sometimes called, is a very ancient Sanskrit

text. Nothing seems to be known about the author, though tradition ascribes it to the Sage Ashtavakra hence the name….

The translation here is by John Richards, and is presented to the public domain with his affection .                              

CONVERSATION BETWEEN KING JANAKA AND RISHI ASHTAVAKRA 

Janaka

How is knowledge to be acquired? How is liberation to be attained? And how is dispassion to be

Reached? Tell me this, sir. 1.1

Ashtavakra

If you are seeking liberation, my son, shun the objects of the senses like poison. Practice, tolerance, sincerity, compassion, contentment and truthfulness like nectar. 1.2

You are neither earth, water, fire, air nor even ether. For liberation know yourself as consisting of consciousness, the witness of these. 1.3

If only you will remain resting in consciousness, seeing yourself as distinct from the body, then even now you will become happy, peaceful and free from bonds.1.4

You do not belong to the brahmin or any other caste, you are not at any stage, nor are you anything

that the eye can see. You are unattached and formless, the witness of everything so be happy. 1.5

Righteousness and unrighteousness, pleasure and pain are purely of the mind and are no concern of

yours. You are neither the doer nor the reaper of the consequences, so you are always free. 1.6

You are the one witness of everything, and are always totally free. The cause of your bondage is that you see the witness as something other than this. 1.7

Since you have been bitten by the black snake of the self opinion

that 'I am the doer', drink the nectar of faith in the fact that 'I am not the doer', and be happy. 1.8

Burn down the forest of ignorance with the fire of the understanding that 'I am the one pure

Awareness', and be happy and free from distress. 1.9

That in which all this appears imagined

Like the snake in a rope, that joy, supreme joy and

Awareness is what you are, so be happy. 1.10

If one thinks of oneself as free, one is free, and if one thinks of oneself as bound, one is bound. Here

this saying is true, "Thinking makes it so". 1.11

Your real nature is as the one perfect, free, and action less consciousness, the all-pervading witness unattached to anything, desire less and at peace. It is from illusion that you seem to be involved in

samsara (FAMILY LIFE). 1.12

Meditate on yourself as motionless awareness, free from any dualism, giving up the mistaken idea

that you are just a derivative consciousness, or anything external or internal. 1.13

You have long been trapped in the snare of identification with the body. Sever it with the knife of

Knowledge that I am awareness, and be happy, my son. 1.14

You are really unbound and action less, self illuminating

and spotless already. The cause of your

bondage is that you are still resorting to stilling the mind. 1.15

All of this is really filled by you and strung out in you, for what you consist of is pure awareness so

don't be small minded. 1.16

You are unconditioned and changeless, formless and immovable, unfathomable awareness and

imperturbable, so hold to nothing but consciousness. 1.17

now close your eyes and try to remind what you have learned.

GO AHEAD, APPLY IT AND MAKE THE DIFFERENCE, WHAT A GOOD TIME IT IS

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 Hi everyone ,  hope you are enjoying a great time.

Well, before starting  I want to make sure that you have studied (not only read ) my first two blogs ,in my last blog I said “we must keep our cup empty” that  shows our readiness towards learning……..i think you are ready now……..well  relax ….be cool ,calm..don’t be hurry, you have got nothing to lose. many people don’t allow themselves to  love ,to learn precisely because of that ,because there are lot of things at risk,, a lot of future and a lot of past. in your case, there is only the present …and the present is you ,rest exist in your mind only. Enjoy the the beauty of nature  ,look at the moon, see the sun rising, appreciate the smile everybody passes to you..because thirty years down the line we could be at the opposite side of the table..live now,........ Imagine , we are walking through a snowy road, sound  of cool breeze resonating around,.......... suddenly we have found a small coffee shop on the top of the small hill..You are at the opposite of me, waiting.......... for hear from me?????….yes I have many things to tell you..Today I will share something   very precious, I got from a novel long time before…don’t worry, have your coffee, .i will pay your bill lol… you know, some time I think ‘why higher degree’? Why so much competition? Why unusual school syllabus? Why so much pressure?...after all it is life ,not pressure cooker lol. Almost everyone  will tell you what to do, from where to start but no one will tell you, where to stop . you are someone who is different  ,but who wants to be same as everyone else. and that, in my view, is a serious illness. Do something different daily as you are doing now , know your self, live in your dream .keep faith in yourself ,there is no secret of success ,it is with in you..listen to others but don’t forget your inner voice…now I will share with  you what I have learned from that novel…..i am sharing with you as because I have faith on whatever I have learned..here the point is FAITH,   IT is a state of mind which may be induced, or created, by

Affirmation or repeated instructions to the subconscious mind. 

As an illustration, consider the purpose for which you are, presumably, reading this BLOG.

The object is, naturally, to acquire the ability to transmute the intangible thought impulse of

DESIRE into its physical counterpart.

The method by which one develops FAITH, where it does not  exist, is extremely

difficult to describe, almost as difficult, in fact, as it would be to describe the color of red to a

blind man who has never seen color, and has nothing with which to compare what you

describe to him. Faith is a state of mind which you may develop at will, after you have

mastered the principle , because it is a state of mind which develops voluntarily,

through application and use of these principles.

Repetition of affirmation of orders to your subconscious mind is the only known method of

voluntary development of the emotion of faith. Perhaps the meaning may be made clearer

through the following explanation as to the way men sometimes become criminals. Stated in

the words of a famous criminologist, "When men first come into contact with crime, they

abhor it. If they remain in contact with crime for a time, they become accustomed to it, and

endure it. If they remain in contact with it long enough, they finally embrace it, and become

influenced by it."

This is the equivalent of saying that any impulse of thought which is repeatedly passed on to

the subconscious mind is, finally, accepted and acted upon by the subconscious mind, which

proceeds to translate that impulse into its physical equivalent.

. The emotions of Faith, Love, and Sex, when mixed with any thought

impulse, give it greater action than any of these emotions can do singly.

Not only thought impulses which have been mixed with FAITH, but those which have been

mixed with any of the positive emotions, or any of the negative emotions, may reach, and

influence the subconscious mind.

Surely, enough has been stated to give a starting point from which one may, through

experiment and practice, acquire the ability to mix FAITH with any order given to the

subconscious mind.

Perfection will come through practice. It cannot come by merely reading instructions.

If it be true that one may become a criminal by association with crime, (and this is a known

fact), it is equally true that one may develop faith by voluntarily suggesting to the

subconscious mind that one has faith. The mind comes, finally, to take on the nature of the

influences which dominate it. Understand this truth, and you will know why it is essential for

you to encourage the positive emotions as dominating forces of your mind, and discourage

and eliminate negative emotions.

.

FAITH IS A STATE OF MIND WHICH MAY BE INDUCED BY AUTO-SUGGESTION .

FAITH is the starting point of all accumulation of riches!

FAITH is the basis of all "miracles," and all mysteries which cannot be analyzed by the rules

of science!

FAITH is the only known antidote for FAILURE!

FAITH is the element, the "chemical" which, when mixed with prayer, gives one direct

communication with Infinite Intelligence.

FAITH is the element which transforms the ordinary vibration of thought, created by the

finite mind of man, into the spiritual equivalent.

FAITH is the only agency through which the cosmic force of Infinite Intelligence can be

harnessed and used by man.

THERE ARE NO LIMITATIONS TO THE MIND EXCEPT THOSE WE ACKNOWLEDGE

BOTH POVERTY AND RICHES ARE THE OFFSPRING OF THOUGHT

AUTO-SUGGESTION is a term which applies to all suggestions and all self-administered

stimuli which reach one's mind through the five senses. These senses should be controlled properly otherwise weeds will grow in abundance, if the seeds of more desirable crops are not sown

therein.

 subconscious mind has its price, and you MUST PAY THAT PRICE.

You cannot cheat, even if you desire to do so.

Follow the foregoing instruction to the letter, and it will open the way for a complete

understanding, and mastery of the principles of success .

1.    I realize the dominating thoughts of my mind will eventually reproduce themselves

in outward, physical action, and gradually transform themselves into physical reality,

therefore, I will concentrate my thoughts for thirty minutes daily, upon the task of thinking of

the person I intend to become, thereby creating in my mind a clear mental picture of that

person.

2.    T. I know through the principle of auto-suggestion, any desire that I persistently hold in

my mind will eventually seek expression through some practical means of attaining the

object back of it, therefore, I will devote ten minutes daily to demanding of myself the

development of SELF-CONFIDENCE.

3.    I have clearly written down a description of my DEFINITE CHIEF AIM in life, and I will

never stop trying, until I shall have developed sufficient self-confidence for its attainment.

4.    I fully realize that no wealth or position can long endure, unless built upon truth and

justice, therefore, I will engage in no transaction which does not benefit all whom it affects. I

will succeed by attracting to myself the forces I wish to use, and the cooperation of other

people. I will induce others to serve me, because of my willingness to serve others. I will

eliminate hatred, envy, jealousy, selfishness, and cynicism, by developing love for all

humanity, because I know that a negative attitude toward others can never bring me

success.

I will cause others to believe in me, because I will believe in them, and in myself.

I will sign my name to this formula, commit it to memory, and repeat it aloud once a day,

with full FAITH that it will gradually influence my THOUGHTS and ACTIONS so that I will

become a self-reliant, and successful person.

Back of this formula is a law of Nature which no man has yet been able to explain. It has

baffled the scientists of all ages. The psychologists have named this law "auto-suggestion,"

and let it go at that.

The name by which one calls this law is of little importance. The important fact about it is-it

WORKS for the glory and success of mankind, IF it is used constructively. On the other hand,

if used destructively, it will destroy just as readily. In this statement may be found a very

significant truth, namely; that those who go down in defeat, and end their lives in poverty,

misery, and distress, do so because of negative application of the principle of autosuggestion…

The pages of medical history are rich with illustrations of cases of "suggestive suicide." A

man may commit suicide through negative suggestion, just as effectively as by any other

means. In a mid western city, a man by the name of Joseph Grant, a bank official, "borrowed"

a large sum of the bank's money, without the consent of the directors. He lost the money

through gambling. One afternoon, the Bank Examiner came and began to check the

`accounts. Grant left the bank, took a room in a local hotel, and when they found him, three

days later, he was lying in bed, wailing and moaning, repeating over and over these words,

"My God, this will kill me! I cannot stand the disgrace." In a short time he was dead. The

doctors pronounced the case one of "mental suicide."

Just as electricity will turn the wheels of industry, and render useful service if used

constructively; or snuff out life if wrongly used, so will the law of auto-suggestion lead you

to peace and prosperity. or down into the valley of misery, failure, and death, according to

your degree of understanding and application of it.

 THIS STATEMENT IS AS TRUE AS THE STATEMENT THAT TWO AND TWO ARE FOUR!

READ THE ENTIRE BLOG ALOUD ONCE EVERY NIGHT, UNTIL YOU BECOME THOROUGHLY

CONVINCED THAT THE PRINCIPLES  ARE SOUND, THAT IT WILL

ACCOMPLISH FOR YOU ALL THAT HAS BEEN CLAIMED FOR IT.

AS YOU READ, UNDERSCORE WITH A PENCIL EVERY SENTENCE WHICH IMPRESSES YOU

FAVORABLY.

        "   BE THE CHANGE YOU WANT TO SEE IN THE WORLD"

                                                                                                                 Mhatma Gandhi 

                   






PS: I AM JUST A GARDENER..I CAN ONLY OFFER YOU LITTLE AMOUNT OF SEEDS, I HAVE. USE IT WITH GREAT PASSION ,DREAM OF THE MOST BEAUTIFUL PLANT
 YOU WANT TO HAVE IN YOUR LIFE..THAT YOU ALREADY OWN.

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KEEP YOUR CUP EMPTY

KEEP YOUR CUP EMPTY

“MOTIVASION IS THE POWERFUL ENGINE

THAT MOVES YOU TOWARDS SUCCESS

AND ACCOMPLISHMENTS IN EVERY AREA”

“BECOMING AN ENTREPRENEUR IS A

COMBINATION OF COMMON SENSE AND UN COMMON

THINKING…START THINKING LIKE AN ENTREPRENEUR

TODAY…”

“LOOK AT YOURSELF IN THE MIRROR   AND ASK YOURSELF

‘.WHAT ONE THING WOULD I WANTTO DO FOR THE REST OF MY

LIFE ??? , DO THAT…”

STOP, STOP….. now let me ask you few questions..

1.     How many of you really understood those quotes?

2.     How many of you really going to remember those quotes after leaving this

Page ?????

3.     How many of you are really going to apply those in your life??????

Well, answers may be many…but it does not matter,

What  matters is our readiness towards our life..we all must accept what our life wants to offer us..

Top of the matter is “ACCEPTANCE ”

I believe that, a day with out helping others or without inspiring even a single soul, is a day wasted. So, I have been practicing it from last four years..

During this years I met with many great souls, learned various life changing

Thoughts and techniques, and along with I met  and chose  many wrong people as well..but I never regret for that because no one can teach you right lesson better than WRONG PEOPLE..

I believe, you have  experienced the same things I have experienced during this years…that almost every day we come across with great ideas, great quotes, great tips through friends, face book, twitter, news paper, emails or through other channels..and we feel good for the moment, try to apply those ideas on ourselves..and seek to share those ideas with other friends or with business associates…but everything happens for the moment, and everything goes as it was going, most of the cases.

Now problem ,begins with the processes of SHARING and  APPLYING,

IN CASE OF ‘SHARING’

·         Ideas will be gathered but not understood

·         Ideas will be understood but will be forgotten very soon

·         Those how remember forget to apply so one

IN CASE OF ‘APPLYING’

·         Confusion because of various ideas in hand at a time

·         Procrastination

·         Talking the walk ,not walking the talk

From long time back..i had been pondering upon those problems

And one day I had a talk with an international motivational speaker

On the same topic…and he said few beautiful lines.. the theory of 4s.

                                    “SOME WILL, SOME WON’T, SO WHAT???

                                     SOMEONE  IS WAITING FOR YOU”

Still the answer was not clear to me…but I never gave up..and I found the answer

In simple example when I was STUDYING  a novel  ‘the monk who sold his Ferrari’  by robin Sharma

Truth is  “when you help yourself ,the whole universe conspires to help you”

Now take a empty cup, fill it with dirty water, take  another cup full of milk and pour the milk it into the cup full of dirty water…now you know what is going to happen???? Milk will not get into the dirty water…milk will be over flowed..

Hope now you also got the answer….lol

DON’T let any one fool you…being a successful person is not a easy task(at first)

It takes a certain kind of quality which I like to refer to as “INNER GAME’

You see, if your inner game is not in order, you are probably not going to be able to over come the difficulties..it is almost like you need to have this BULLISH  mentality..

So   KEEP YOUR CUP (HERE MIND) EMPTY, ….GOOD THINGS WILL EMBRACE, YOU 
IF YOU ARE LITTLE SINCERE …..

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REMOVE YOUR MENTAL BLOCK AND SPREAD YOUR WINGS

To day i am going to write my first blog and it has happened just after six months of learning and planning ,so it was the 'mind virus' or you can say "mental blocks" which stopped me to do so,well..always I used to think that i could not do it..or it is just not cup of my tea,..many questions came in my mind and when i found negative answers for couple of days in a row,I felt something is wrong,i needed to change something..somewhere everyone has to start from zero..and finally i am here to talk to you.hey look at me...there is nothing to fear except 'fear of falling' and 'fear of loud sound' which we born with....true to be said.we have nothing to loose, because we actually come here with nothing and will go with absolutely nothing....so just listen to your inner voice and go ahead..do what you love to do...To be a leader we need no title...we don't need to to have any higher degree like PHD( permanent head damage)..lol..what we need to have a burning desire to do something ....backed by a strong faith on our dream.....so don,t be fooled by "MIND VIRUSES'....

spread your wings and fly so high, until you try it, you won't be knowing how high you can go

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